I can't meet girls, help me everyone!!?
Well, in order to meet girls, you have to talk to them. Period. If you ignore girls, most of them will not approach you. Girls are very shy to approach guys and the majority want a guy to approach them. You need to start talking to more girls to become comfortable around them. Therefore, you need to be friends with girls too. You can tell if you're really bothering a girl because she'll make excuses. If she doesn't like you, move on to the next girl. Don't be afraid to keep on trying. Try smiling more and having more fun. If you look nervous, chances are the shy girls that want to approach you won't approach you.
You are making excuses for approaching girls. The more you think that you're bothering girls, the more you're diminishing your own self-esteem. You have to be confident in yourself for people to like you. No one likes a guy that has no self-esteem.
Single life sucks sometimes, but you have to be a little bit more extroverted to be able to talk and hang out with girls. Good luck!
Go out. Make friends. Expand ur friend zones. You wouldn't be able to meet the RIGHT ONE when you're just sitting there asking yourself and being miserable.
all you can do is wait you dont really have to rush anything and if you get desperate thats what one nighters are for. haha
I DONT CARE
What girls DO you want?
1. What type
2. what type of relationship are you intending on having
I will e-mail you to ask..
there are alot of girls out there just like u.whats the worse they can do-say no? just ask someone out that u probably will never see again unless she says yes. good luck
One thing I can say-- If a guy came up to me on the street and hit on me- asked me out for coffee- after using a cute line on me of course, I would spare an hour or two to see what he's like.
Try to look for a girl who drops something on the street, help her pick it up and make light conve if you can- good luck!
But remember that you will find her in time
u should stop reading those cheesey books on how to date girls they NEVER work.
when u talk to a girl try to act natureal never give up unless its really obvious they dont want to talk to u try going with a group of friends instead of by urself that tells girls ur unapealing and u have no friends
Girls are everywhere! well, except the place where you work. Just keep in mind that we really don't mind if you approach us wherever we are, unless it's like in a parking garage or something. Yes, if you look like a creep we wont hang around
Be friends with a girl get to know her and hangout with her. Its important to establish a good friendship before going out.
start talking, heaps till u get tired. hopefully if u do that heaps everyday ur shyness should overcome doesnt matter if ppl think what u talk is rubbish. at least u feel gud on the inside that ur changing
your gonna have to start getting comfortable around girls. Being shy doesn't help at all. I dontthink you'd be bothering any girl, girls like the attention trust.
More than half the time you think you're bothering them, you're not. So go and talk to them. Make friends with them. You look like you're in a tight spot. Try this site. Ofcourse theres no point reading tips if you don't use them. Just be confident. You'll find girls lined up for you.
Go to the mall.
Just make random conversations with women.
You need to boost your self-confidence up.
It'll also help you to learn to speak up and be spontaneous.
Once u build your courage up, ask one out that u find attractive.
The mall is perfect because there is a huge chance that if you mess up, you'll never see that person again!
I've dont this exact same thing and I go out with 3 different women in a day. (Just to get to know them of course)
So go crazy bro!
no things will change... you need to find that minor change in you that needs to be made and allwos women to see your interested without being desperate... it seems as tho eery time you would meet a female you would approach her as tho you wanted her... change it p... approach them as an equal some one you are talking to just to talk to and perhaps to make a friend... if the chemistry is their things will definatly kick off.
ok do this and i promise you will get a date, it might be hard if youre shy, but being scared will never get you nowhere, in one week ask out 100 girls, and i GUARANTEE you one will say yes, it doesnt matter who you are(as long as your not an obvious psycho that is) at least one will say yes, but you cant just walk up to them and ask them out straight up , just make a few minutes of small talk, and it can be anything just get them talking< try to make her laugh or at least smile, and right afterwards you say , you know we should get together sometimes, if you do this you will have a date by the end of the week
The only thing I can tell you is to try to get over your shyness. Maye you can try to talk to one girl a week. Then once you do that a few weeks, up it to 2 or 3 a week. Try casual conversation to start and don't worry! I promise most girls will be happy to talk to you. If they aren't interested, just move on. Good Luck
You will only be bugging the girls that you approach if you say something stupid or rude. ANY girl will appreciate a genuine complement and an offer for a drink/cup of coffee/whatever. Next time you are out at a bar and you see someone that you are attracted to just go for it, be confident (not cocky), Give her your biggest "I'm a nice guy, not a freak" smile and introduce yourself. GIve her a nice complement (ie her eyes, smile, laugh) and ask if you can get her a drink. If your talk goes well ask her for a date later in the week and keep your fingers crossed! Just the fact that you want a real relationship will be attractive to any girl that you approach. Good luck!
okay! so first thing you have to remember is that most women are just as shy as men but we love to know that you think of us so much that you would put your neck on the line just to speak to us so your best bet is to just be honest go over there and let them know that you think that they are so awesome it took 5 Min's worth of physicing yourself out just to get up the nerve to talk to them we love that kinda stuff it makes us feel important but most of all be yourself cause if you get passed phase one all you have to go is who you really are!
I've had a lot of the same problems, and I can tell you from what you've said and the fact that it's been 7 years, you may want to consider seeing a pyschiatrist. I've had problems ever since I was like 5, and I finally found out I have social anxiety disorder. I only say this because it seems like you're in an extreme situation such as I was in.
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